What if your child is transgender?

As we all know that many transgender people have different gender identity at a very young age, in fact, this is a great pressure for both children and their parents. What will you do if your child come out as transgender? For sensitive parents, it is my unacceptable if their children are transgender. However, it is possible to happen in all families. Transgender children would act different from other children of the same gender. For example, a boy who is uncomfortable with the gender he was assigned with, he may likely to dress as girls and always be with girls at school. One of my transgender friends told me that she steal her sister's dresses and heels when she was very young. After that her mother bought her some dresses and girls clothes. She is so lucky that her families could really understand her, so her transition process seemed easier than other transgender people who are not be supported by their families.

I not mean parents who cannot accept and support their children as transgender are bad parents. I can really understand them. Most of parents are average people who are not open enough to accept transgender people in life. They just want to live a normal life and have a ts dating and they hope their kids grow up into the one they want. We can neevr force anyone to accept transgender people, just the same as we cannot force someone to become a transgender person. It is a problem of gender identity. All parents want to have a healthy child, since being transgender is considered as a kind of mental illness. It is one of the biggest misunderstanding on transgender people. Transgender people are mentally healthy and emotionally stable individuals.

Some parents think that being transgender means dress and act like the opposite gender. They can accept their kids dress and act in the different way, while transition surgery and hormone treatment are unacceptable to them. The cannot accept their kids to change their body features. Their children are so perfect in most of parents eyes, while they have their own thoughts. They are thankful for the lives you've given them, but they have the rights to determine how to live. You might be surprised when you see a transgender child on TV, and you may never think about it will happen to you one day. In fact, it happens everyday and everywhere, no one knows who is the next one to come out as transgender. I hope you can be an open-minded parent who can support the decision of your children once they made the decision to come out as tranny date partners. You should know that your support is very important them. The life of transgender people who are supported by their parents is totally different from the life of other transgender people who are not supported by their parents. Whatever the changes on their body and appearance, the only constant is that they are your children. No one can change the fact.